When you choose joy, you feel good; and when you feel good, you do good; and when you do good, it reminds others of what joy feels like,and it just might inspire them to do the same. i choose Joy. I choose Christa!
Stop 'parenting' people! It's the most overrated thing, Instead, start 'raising' kids by just using MOSTLY your heart - It tells you what to do where all parenting books can't: each child is an individual.