"I think part of the reason why we hold on to something so tight is because we fear something so great won't happen twice." Sad thing is that holding on will also keep a greater thing from coming. Fear should never be a motivation.
I don't believe they'll think of me at all. They got their Happy Ever After. It doesn't include me, and it never did, despite their promises otherwise. - unfortunately you are correct.I feel that way too!
I wish every single girl would believe this! If I had believed it, waiting for my amazing husband would have been easier! He loves me for who I am, and I have never had to even ask for it:) Wouldn't it suck to have a life based on an ultimatum ?