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I don't care if someone likes attention occasionally. It becomes an issue when their life's happiness stems only from the approval of others. One must be content with themselves, first & foremost. Then, small doses of outside validation are healthy bc they do not define how you see yourself. If you survive/thrive based off the approval of others, then it is not only unhealthy for yourself, but also for those who are trying to love you because no amount of love they give you will ever be…

I don't care if someone likes attention, I can't tolerate people who NEED it, who CRAVE it. I cannot be friends with someone whose only validation in life comes from the attention and approval of others. It's toxic to be around

If you have been treated bad, i highly recommend to 'just' let go completely. Every emotion/ thought is a connection and effects you in one way or another!

It may take only one profound event to cause this.should you give an INTJ reason to pull away, you'll discover you've been completely eliminated from their're not hated, you simply no longer exist.