let it go- "get over it!", "give it to god" or more eloquently - ".grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, The courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference." If you can do that, life is soooo much better.
I dont want you to have to save me. I want you to stand by my side as I save myself. I want this as a tattoo, except I'd change the words to, "I dont want you to save me, I want you to stay beside me as I save myself.