I tell this to My husband all the time. So proud of the man you are. Love you JWM! Remember how far you've come, not just how far you have to go. You are not where you want to be, but neither are you where you used to be.
God for long walks. Indulge in great conversations. Question your assumptions. Love yourself. Pay attention to the normal. Be a little crazy. Count your blessings. Let go for a little while and just be.