I just found proof "him" has been cheating on me. Not only having sex with a woman close to TWENTY YEARS older than "him"/us, but also hooking up with random women from sex ads and at bars, all of which is somehow so much worse than an affair .
Toxic to the core. Knowing he has multiple women on the side and one who won't leave no matter what he does makes him feel powerful. It's a true sickness. Makes me sick to my stomach. Wish women would open their eyes!