Lammas (or Lughnasadh) occurs in late July and early August. It marks the beginning of the harvest. It's the first of three harvest festivals and is usually associated with ripening grain. It heralds the coming of Autumn.
Narcissism - If you're in a relationship full of ups & downs and you're constantly trying to prove your love and get back what you had in the beginning - look up Narcissism. "If he loved you he would care that he hurt you.