Narcissism - If you're in a relationship full of ups & downs and you're constantly trying to prove your love and get back what you had in the beginning - look up Narcissism. "What a plot twist you were.
Haha how about start with Tea. Also can we have (or attempt to have) a classy dinner party with wine instead of hard liquor. Or maybe just try and start with wine and move on to alcohol less classy and more fitting to our personalities?