Control your thoughts
There are times when we must draw healthy boundaries, but let us pray that we use wisdom in doing so. Don't give up on people too quickly. Ever have someone you care about set an unhealthy boundary against any acts of kindness.. yeah.. thats a delicate one.. to show someone you care and love them, but to be spurned. Hurts pretty deep. Christ's way is the better way. Do unto others. Love one another.