He became the guy I left 10 months ago all over. Showed no growth like he claimed. Still has no ability to show remorse or empathy. Only shows control when things don't go as he wants. Disconnection phase finalized by him.
That's where you messed up. You gave them the opportunity to picture a life without you, by being inconsistent. So when they got the strength, they walked away without looking back. No not walked away, they learned to move on.