It's not a competition about getting your partner to want you more or vice versa. If it's the case where your boyfriend takes you for granted and you're in a 'comfortable' zone, try some of these tips to reverse it and put some spark in your relationship.
One of the best posts I have read on how to pray for your boyfriend. A must read! I love when my boyfriend and I pray together even though it doesn't happen as often as it should, but praying for each other is just as important.