"Every setback is a setup for comeback. Every bad break,every disappointment, and every person who does you wrong is part of the plan to get you where you're supposed to be." - Joel Osteen [You Can, You Will]
"Lord, if it's not your will, let it slip through my grasp and give me the peace not to worry about it anymore." - however, if something is going to slip through your grasp it may require actively opening your hands
it's meaningless to say you're meant to be where you end up. It's arbitrarily renaming that 'where you're meant to be'. I don't believe anyone is meant to be anywhere. You are where you are, and end up where you end up.