if 'keeping her' is the only reason you treat a woman right, it doesn't count imo. It's like being nice to somebody just to get in their pants. You should treat women (and men also) right because they are people
This is such a sweet pose to add to your must-haves for your engagement photo list. The ring is one of the most important parts of any engagement shoot, and this pose does a great job of including the ring, without being overly in your face.