@D - Reading your pins makes me so sad. It's not the universe conspiring against us. It's you. We're not together because of your choice, no other reason. I wish I could understand you honey. Your pins are so sad but you made the choice that causes the sadness. Why can't you be happy and accept the life you've chosen, or if you're not happy, make a different choice and a change for the better. No one is stopping you, but you. People in happy relationships don't pine for another. Sigh.