You hear that CL; you just make yourself look ,and sound stupid! To many people were around during my marriage, and after it that knows how things really were! You was not one of them! So you have a right to guess what you think happened! But again you were not there! And another thing you preach so much about how to be a good wife, and how to make a marriage work; then why aren't you with you three children dad? Guess you're not perfect either!