You may not able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.similar to what I say a lot.if you can't change the situation, the only other thing then that you can change is your attitude.
Yøu can't change sømeøne whø doesn't see an issue in their actiøns. Some people act and think it's okay to have sex with a man that's taken. or keep talking to men that's in a relationship. respect yourself