Open when we're in a bad fight. Bible verse- "If your brother or sister in God's family does something wrong, go and tell them what they did wrong. Do this when you are alone with them. If they listen to you, then you have helped them to be your brother or sister again." Matthew 18:16
Open when you're mad letter. Bible verse- "In your anger do not sin. Do not give the devil a foothold. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up.