Focusing on the good things coming is more healing than focusing on regrets. Think about a dream, You must have a general dream your talents can enjoy coming true. Without such hope, How are you going to have any dreams come true.
You think I dont enjoy pleasure but the art of making food and enjoying it is a great pleasure in life. Same with sex. There is an art to it and a pleasure to be enjoyed from it as long as you are with the right person.