I spent so much time trying to forget you. In years I understood that I will never forget you but that doesn't mean I have to be in love with you. When I finally understood that, I moved on. :) wise words of another pinner
"I am tired of trying to hold things together that cannot be held. Trying to control what cannot be controlled. I am tired of denying myself what I want for fear of breaking things I cannot fix. They will break no matter what we do.
I still feel sad, sometimes, because we shared so many things together. but it was for the better. Maybe she cared, maybe she didn't, but she made me so miserable at times- I couldn't fight on my own anymore.