Everyone is always wondering why I smile for no apparent reason, I smile mostly because I notice stuff that I think is amusing, and no one else notices. Sometimes I smile to cover the tears. But mostly I smile because I think someone else needs one.
I think every woman needs to learn to not need anyone and to always always be able to hold herself up alone. Nothing wrong with love of being with a man, just learn to keep your independence! Needing and wanting a man in your life is different.