I sucks ass though when you do decide fuck the norm and take time away from school/work for someone and then shit has to happen and they don't want to spend that time with you. We will never have another 3 year.
I remember the first person who told me I dodged a bullet when you left. She winked, hugged me, and she just knew. And then I knew, I'd be ok too. I would have NEVER seen the truth had I not opened my eyes and truly paid attention.