I think every woman needs to learn to not need anyone and to always always be able to hold herself up alone. Nothing wrong with love of being with a man, just learn to keep your independence! Needing and wanting a man in your life is different.
Live in positive and optimistic faith in all things. I actually like Respect, Reside, Rest better. Respect your past. Reside in the dwelling of the beauty and wonder of the present. Rest in the confidence of the things God is setting up for your future.