I will not be any man's half-time.and I held that attitude when I was single. Pinner said: By waiting for the right man in the right time I found the love of my life and it proves the saying that "anything worth having is worth waiting for.
"Someday everything will make perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason." Even if someday it doesn't make perfect sense, it happened for a reason.
I think every woman needs to learn to not need anyone and to always always be able to hold herself up alone. Nothing wrong with love of being with a man, just learn to keep your independence! Needing and wanting a man in your life is different.