unknown to those who do not know them well - they hold themselves to an even higher standard than they do others - which is nothing less than the standard of perfection and internalize failure in a deep and hidden way." This me!
No, people with the worst pasts do end up with creating the best futures! If we use our past as our strength, we can have a beautiful present and future life. It's all about mindset and using your past to create a better future!