There's an age when a woman has to be beautiful to be loved. Then comes the age when a woman has to be loved to be beautiful.
Elegance doesn't mean to stand out, but to remain in memory. And beauty is what you think about yourself, not what you see in the mirror.
You don't stop a man with nothing. Neither with children, neither with beauty, neither with emotional blackmail or gaudy hysteria. The man stays with the woman that he wants to live with.
A weak man can't be with a strong woman. He wouldn't know what to do with her.
The ideal man doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't cheat, doesn't swear and doesn't exist.