But it can also make the hurt feel strong. But when you're strong, you come back to the surface and you keep going. And I don't think this is just for women. There are men who also have a big heart, have feelings and are very emotional. This shouldn't just be a woman or man thing. This should be a human thing. Think about others... Don't take pride in hurting others. It only earns you a picture in the dictionary under Evil.